วันจันทร์ที่ 10 พฤศจิกายน พ.ศ. 2551

Momma Chol Helps Sudanese Refugees Cross 'Bridge' to US Society


By Alyssa Zamora
Jacksonville, Florida

This is American Profiles, VOA's weekly spotlight on notable Americans who are having a positive impact on the world. Alyssa Zamora introduces us to Sharon Svihel, who has made it her life's work to help Sudanese refugees adjust to American society.

Sharon Svihel became interested in Africa in 1997 when she fostered a teenage Lost Boy from Sudan. Chol Ajang is now a proud college graduate and inspirational public speaker, and Svihel is still involved with Sudanese refugees.

Now known as Momma Chol, the spirited grandmother of 11 has helped hundreds of those who fled genocide and political unrest in Sudan.


Momma Chol enjoys a hug with Anthony Akech's older daughter

Momma Chol spends most mornings visiting a handful of Sudanese families in Jacksonville, Florida. This region - with its warm climate and network of community support - has become one of the major resettlement areas for refugees from Africa as well as from Asia, the Middle East and Latin America.

On a recent day, Momma Chol arrives at Anthony Akech's apartment with a bag full of presents for his two young daughters.

For more than a decade, Momma Chol has done whatever she can to make it easier for Sudanese refugees to find a home, make a living, learn English and get an education. She grew up in a strict religious family, and after college, she took a job in business. But a seed planted by one relative pulled her away from that traditional career into a life of service.

A Prophetic Vision Fulfilled


A young Sister Theophane after she decided to become a missionary in Hong Kong
She says her Aunt Theophane, a lifelong missionary in Hong Kong, made a lasting impression on her as a child.

"She would say to me, 'I just really believe God is going to make you a missionary someday, and out of everyone in the family, I think God has chosen you,'" Momma Chol recalls. "It wasn't until adopting my daughter from Korea that I thought maybe someday I'll be going over there [to Asia]."

"Little did I know that God had a different plan, and he was directing me to Africa," she adds.

Momma Chol has traveled to Africa on behalf of various resettlement agencies, including World Relief and Lutheran Social Services. She also was instrumental in starting Jacksonville's Aid Sudan Foundation in 2004. Momma Chol's faith in God and drive to help others eventually paved the way for Bridges to Sudan.

She co-founded the nonprofit group last year with former social worker Tina Jaeckle, now a social and behavioral sciences professor at a local college. Bridges to Sudan offers classes on relationships, parenting, cooking, time management and American social norms.


Sudanese mothers at a nutrition class sponsored by Bridges to Sudan

Momma Chol says she has found her purpose in life.

"Being able to watch a child smile or see a family be together and be able to make a living for themselves without having to feel like they have to ask for help," she says.

But, she stresses, "We know they need help."

Bridges to Sudan fills the service gaps that Momma Chol says government programs fail to consider.

"It's just horrible to watch someone that is struggling so much," she says. "But because services are not in place, they wouldn't have a chance, and we need to give them that."

She points out that Sudanese refugees have left behind a horrific experience. In addition to surviving war and torture, they were living with no water, no sanitation and no electricity.

"And coming here, to a modern area that has everything," she says, "it's very unrealistic for anyone to … expect that they're going to learn English and expect them - in two or three months - to get everything they need."

She says adapting to the American way of life does not take months, but years.

An Everyday Hero

For Anthony Akech, who came to the United States in 2001, a good life in America was perhaps beyond his reach before he met Momma Chol. He says it was difficult to keep a job and support himself. His wife was still in Sudan at the time. But he says Momma Chol gave his family hope for a better life.

"She cooked for us, and that time I don't have bed to sleep, so she send people to buy bed, blanket and bring them to my apartment," he says. "She helped me a lot. She helped me pay bill for my doctor. I don't have insurance at time. I don't have anything. I can't pay it. And she find a way."


Anthony Akech, now on the organization's board of directors, returned home with Momma Chol in 2004 to deliver medical supplies to several villages

Akech is now a U.S. citizen, studying for his associate's degree at a local college and working at a stable, full-time job. He says he is most grateful to Momma Chol for always treating him like family.

After he was shot in the leg during a carjacking, he says she was the only person who came to his bedside.

"She stayed with me for all day and all night every day. I was having severe pain in my leg," he recalls. "If you need help, then she can be a hero for you."

But the humble Momma Chol says she is the lucky one for having the opportunity to meet people like Anthony Akech, who are survivors, who can teach Americans a lesson about the value of life.

วันเสาร์ที่ 1 พฤศจิกายน พ.ศ. 2551

Halloween safety tips


Halloween es un tiempo de diversión para los niños, pero también puede ser de miedo para los padres y conductores.
“Con chiquillos emocionados yendo frenéticamente de un vecindario a otro, los conductores necesitan estar particularmente cuidadosos”, indicó Ray Palermo, Director de Información Pública para el Plan de Seguro de Maestros. “Sin embargo, siguiendo algunos consejos simples, los padres, niños, conductores y propietarios de casas pueden todos tener un momento seguro y agradable”.
Los siguientes son unos consejos que los conductores, los pequeños pidiendo “dulce o travesura” y sus padres, pueden seguir para ayudar a garantizar un Halloween divertido y seguro:
Si los niños están fuera en la noche, los conductores necesitan ser particularmente cuidadosos en la penumbra y cuando conducen en colinas y alrededor de las curvas, donde la visibilidad es limitada . Utilice las luces altas para ver y ser visto.
* Los que piden dulces siempre deber estar acompañados por un adulto o viajar en grupos. Se les debe decir a los niños que no coman ningún dulce o golosina que no esté envuelto hasta que regresen a casa, donde sus papás puedan verlos. Asegurarse de que sus hijos ya hayan comida antes de salir, puede ayudar.
* Los padres quizá quieran limitar a los niños para que acuden a eventos locales organizador por las estaciones de policía, bomberos, centros para personas mayores o negocios locales – u organizar su propio evento a través de sus escuelas.
* Los padres deberían incorporar cinta reflectora a los disfraces o colores brillantes para incrementar la visibilidad. El maquillaje, en vez de máscaras, deberá utilizarse para asegurar que los niños no tengan una visión obstruida de sus alrededores.
* Los pequeños pidiendo dulces podrían quedar atrapados por la emoción del día y no ser tan cuidadosos como deberían. Ellos siempre deben cruzar en las esquinas y ver hacia ambos lados antes de cruzar. Los conductores deben estar atentos al camino y en las aceras, en caso de que alguien salga de entre los coches estacionados.
* Los niños deben permanecer en las aceras – o si no están disponibles, caminar viendo de frente el tráfico. Deben llevar consigo una linterna.
* Los propietarios de casas deben limpiar sus jardines de cualquier cosa que pueden ocasionar un tropezón y asegurarse de tener una luz en puerta frontal o el camino y evitar decoraciones que utilicen una flama abierta que pudiera incendiar el disfraz de un niño.

วันจันทร์ที่ 13 ตุลาคม พ.ศ. 2551

Carnation couple charged in "worst case" child abuse of teen daughter


Carnation couple charged in "worst case" child abuse of teen daughter
Calling it the "worst case" of abuse a detective had ever seen, King County prosecutors have charged a Carnation couple last Friday with criminal mistreatment after police found their 14-year-old daughter emaciated, dehydrated and suffering from severe malnutrition.

By Sonia Krishnan and Christine Clarridge

Seattle Times staff reporters
Calling it the "worst case" of abuse a detective had ever seen, the King County Sheriff's Office arrested a Carnation couple last Friday on suspicion of criminal mistreatment after police found their 14-year-old daughter emaciated, dehydrated and suffering from severe malnutrition.

King County prosecutors today filed criminal mistreatment charges against the girl's father, Jon Pomeroy, 43, and her stepmother, Rebecca Long, 44.

The couple were arrested Friday evening and released on their own recognizance after a first court appearance on Saturday.

If convicted of first- and second-degree criminal mistreatment as charged, Pomeroy and Long could face three and four years in prison, according to King County prosecutor spokesman Dan Donohoe.

An arraignment is scheduled for Oct. 27 in King County Superior Court.

Police said they do not intend to arrest the couple immediately.

"We have no reason to run out and arrest them," said Sgt. John Urquhart, a spokesman for the King County Sheriff's Office. "The judge didn't believe they were a flight threat or a threat to the community, and neither do we."

The investigation began Aug. 13, when a sheriff's deputy went to the house on a welfare check after a call from Child Protective Services (CPS), police said. A neighbor had called CPS "after hearing screaming coming from the house the night before," according to a news release.

Authorities say Long and Pomeroy, a software engineer who worked at Estorian Inc. in Bellevue, had withheld water from the girl as a form of punishment. She weighed only 48 pounds and was 4-foot-7 when the investigation began. Police described her as resembling a 7- or 8-year-old.

Hospitalized two weeks

The girl was admitted to Seattle's Children's Hospital for treatment of severe malnutrition, where she stayed for two weeks.

Her 12-year-old brother appeared to not have been treated as badly; he was a normal height and weight. However, neither child was enrolled in school, said Urquhart.

The lead detective on the case, who has been with the special-assault unit for 16 years, said "he's never seen a case of abuse this bad," Urquhart said.According to police, the girl said her stepmother disciplined her by "restricting her water intake" to about half of a small Dixie cup per day.

The girl and her brother "were forced to sleep on the floor in the same room as their parents, and a heavy dresser was pushed in front of the door to keep her from sneaking out and getting water."

That happened after the girl was caught one night sneaking out of her own room to drink water from the toilet, according to police. She told police she feared her stepmother would hear the faucets if she used them. For food, police said, she was mostly given toast.

The stepmother, who did not work outside the home and claimed to be home-schooling the children, also directly monitored her stepdaughter's showers and bathroom habits "to keep her from surreptitiously drinking water," police said. Showers were restricted to every two or three weeks.

The girl told police that her stepmother once duct-taped her hands behind her back and dunked her head in the toilet to discipline her.

Eroded teeth

Doctors evaluated the girl's teeth and found all of them to be eroded and chipped. She told investigators her teeth hurt when she eats, and she recently broke a tooth while eating celery.

Doctors extracted six teeth under general anesthesia and capped the rest. They said the extreme dental erosion was "likely due to the shutdown of her salivary function due to extreme dehydration over an extended period of time," according to police.

Doctors found she has not gained weight since age 9.

Detectives served a search warrant on the residence and found the girl's room had a double deadbolt on the door, indicating that she was locked in the room at times during the day, police said.

They also collected evidence that the family had health insurance and the girl's brother had seen a doctor in the past few years. The family's two dogs were in good health and had recent trips to a veterinary clinic.

Two-month investigation

Even though the children were removed from the home in August, it took two months to complete an investigation before deputies could arrest the parents, Urquhart said.

Prosecutors said the couple were investigated by Child Protective Services in 2005 when the girl reported being locked in her room for extended periods of time. The CPS investigation concluded that the allegations were founded after Long admitted to locking the girl in her room, but the case was not referred for criminal prosecution, prosecutors said.

Urquhart said the girl and her brother are in foster care and doing well. They are now enrolled in school. The girl's foster father reports that she has gained 20 pounds in the past six weeks, goes to a private school, is making friends and does not appear to have behavioral issues, police and prosecutors said.

Grandfather fell out of touch

The children's biological mother and Pomeroy married in the early 1990s in Albuquerque, where he was working for Word Perfect, according to the mother's father, Robert Stokes, 73, of Bosque Farms, N.M. Stokes said Pomeroy was "quiet, and just a little odd."

The couple moved to Orem, Utah, in the mid-'90s and had the two children. The couple separated and divorced while in Utah, and Pomeroy was given custody of the children.

Stokes said he had received a few "nice letters" from his grandchildren in the beginning, but the contacts became less and less frequent. "I haven't heard from him in some time — years," Stokes said.

Stokes learned that his grandchildren had been taken into custody when he received a message on his answering machine from a Department of Social and Health Services caseworker.

"I haven't had a chance to get back in touch," Stokes said. "I'm just sick about this."

"To themselves" kind of people

The house where the family lives is on a cul-de-sac near the north end of Lake Marcel, about 40 miles east of Seattle, between the communities of Duvall and Carnation.

One neighbor, who declined to give his name other than to say his first name was Jordan, said he'd talked to people at the home only twice in about two years.

"They're very 'to-themselves' kind of people," he said. "I never knew they had a daughter," he said. "They just stayed inside a lot. I never heard any screaming. Police took the kids awhile ago."

He said a sport-utility vehicle and a car normally were parked in the driveway at the home, but no vehicles were there today and the house appeared unoccupied.

Sonia Krishnan: 206-515-5546 or skrishnan@seattletimes.com

Seattle Times staff reporters Mike Carter, Peyton Whitely and Christine Clarridge and news researcher Gene Balk contributed to this report.